It's 34 days to go...

Question: How the hell can i change the title of my blog to something else other than creating a new one?????


Oh well, i guess i'm stuck with it. WTF pon WTF laa...


Updates on wedding prep.



Venue of the wedding has been changed. It has always been my dream to have a wedding at home. But during the merisik and engagement, we realized that the house cant cater the amount of people that we are inviting. 30th nov was the date that was choosen initially but there were no dewan or hotel available. ada la satu hotel, grand blue wave, but....for RM58 per head for crappy menu, baik tak payah. and the hotel sucks. they serve kek kering (kedekut tepung / butter). So thats why 11.01.09 came about, but the venue is a dewan in subang (which i didnt have the opportunity to choose or even check it out). Anyway, i had to agree to that idea.



At this point of time, next thing to look for is the pelamin. Oh god.....there's so many to choose from but all of it (besides the cost) they all look the same!!!!!!!! With kerawang besi as the back drop, kelambu over the head, fresh flowers, pasu2 at the sides... errgh...so typical. After awhile i came to the conslusion to simply choose and go ahead with any of the design. And then there's this professor, a friend of my uncle, he offered to design my pelamin. he did one for raja nazrin and a few royalties. so, as expected, his design are basically very 'golden' and very gah. nampak mewah betul....also not my thingy. bukan buat kat istana.....and i seriously think that it's a bit too much. my mom agreed pulak tu with the cost. hmmm. i disagreed thoh.



i went on for my quest to look for my dream pelamin......a simple and yet classy, not too grandish and yet lovely. so i got to find this one place. it just happened that an actor had his wedding the day before and the canopy and pelamin were not taken down yet, so it was there still. the moment i saw the place, the pelamin and everything else.........i had orgasm right there and then. hehe. kidding. i knew right away that i gotta have this one. i really2 like it, it's so me and fits my dress. hehe. however, the cards had to be reprinted...... but small matter lah.



From last week, our dining table at home dah tukar jadi bilik operasi. we've been busy writing the invitation cards and sorting the lists. Since now the venue is no longer a dewan or hotel, we are worried that there maybe times where there's not enough seats during the peak time. Tah la....this is something the caterer and planner, and me, will need to figure out.



Anyway, back to the guest list, majority will be from my list. Friends, old and new, people from work is the majority, business acquaintances, classmates, lecturers etc. from those peeps, i am contemplating to not to invite some people, thoh i've asked for their addresses. why....bcoz i dislike them. just because. maybe thru the course of my friendship, there's a few incidents that make me dislike them. tp tgk la, maybe ajak je kot. i dont have to say much to them pon kan...



My dearest cousin is planning to have a hen's night for me somewhere after new year. She asked if i'd like a stripper. Perghh.....imagine a man dancing and rubbing his muscled tone body against me...and my frens screming and putting money in his g string. hmmm..... I would agree to have it if i'm not the centre of attention of this stripper. hehe. scary la....rasa mcm kena molest. i nice dinner with friends would be nice though. tengok la apa yg my cuz plan. will update on this later.



Since raya, i've been eating moderately without exercising. so the extra pound's back. huhu. but lucky i have my best buddy, biskot, to exercise with. we even go to the gym. as of now, i'm OK. but the effort must go on bebeh (im telling myself). in relation to that i've already informed my wedding dress designer to allocate some extra space to his tailoring, just in case.



My beloved just got his sijil kursus kahwin, so we got the license. kawin sekarang pon dah boleyyyy.....hihihihihihi (gelak gatal). sometimes, the excitement is just too overwhelming so i'd rather not think of it. buat tatau better. excited awal2 nanti rasa lagi lama. i guess it's due to the fact that dah 2 bulan tak jumper. he came a few times but i was not at home and he only met my parents. huhu. mish him. bak org ancient kata.....jauh di mata dekat di hati. cewah.... jiwang plak blog gue. i'm going to jb soon for work. hmmm maybe just a sneak peek......or dinner perhaps.



will update next time. tata....

I'm Engaged

adegan menyarung cincin....

Just to update....i now have a fiance. Hehe. The engagement was after raya. Everything was excellent except for my make-up. It was bloody tebal sampai mak gua pon tak kenal. Cis. Maybe kena tebal la kot. Tatau la aku nak komen pasal technique2 neh. DGn bulu mata palsu la, contact lense yg bg mata pedih la. I guess muka aku n my skin (natural beauty...huahuahua) kena make up light2 kot...tah la. Tp dlm camera aku nampak cun la jugak, so aku berani letak dlm facebook. Yg close up....errkk...despite some ppl said it's ok in pics. For sanding, i got sue cantik to do my make up...ramai kata dia make up lawa althoh mahal. lg mahal pon ada...dahsat betul diorg ni buat duit. tp my nasihat is that the bride need to really test the make up. i've learned my lesson. Nway, before my tunang came over, aku dah siap2 cuci muka. When he came....adeh.....rindu nye. nasib baik tak terkam situ. heheh. I think instead of looking forward to the majlis, aku lagi excited nak meet him. I guess from his sengih when he got down the car, he felt the same way too. My parents, and my uncle and auntie too was very happy. Pastu....yg tak dijangka2 berlaku.....they all asked to practice sarung cincin...best giler. dpt gak pegang tangan....konon la depan diorg...ehem ehem. tu yg gambo kat atas.





The preparation for my W day is getting hectic...stress gak la, tp org kata normal...but I need to focus on my studies. Just less than a week, I'll be freeeee....temporarily. Pastu kena pulun buat thesis for the first draft masa cuti neh. So kena byk bersabar dgn semua pihak....my parents n rrelatives, and my tunang. (aku ada less than 3 months utk puas2 panggil dia with this title. pastu tukar plak....harap2 sampai bila2).



This afternoon dah gi tempah kad. So you'll be receiving not too long from now. Simple and nice. Takmo yg extravagant. It'll be a waste. On baju plak, dah lama kasi kat designer tapi dah pesan jgn potong lagik. He came over last weekend to finalize on the fashion since gua tak jadi buat concept arab. Baju pengapit, which will be my cuz yg sama muka cam aku pon disponsor lah baju nye oleh mak aku. termasuk my right women (last woman la sapa lagik). Baju laki pon dah tukar concept sbb susah la nak soh tunang gua pakai ishlah and igal. I hope the dress turns out nice. I'm worried bout the shoe thoh....coz the designer nanti buat sekali...takut melecet plaks. aku dah la kaki kulit nipis. Pastu jalan sure lawak. Kelakar tak if aku soh pengapit aku tukarkan aku kasut pakai kasut keje masa sanding tuh...?









As for me fitting in that dress, thank god that i've lost some weight. a lot la kot. lama giler daripada dulu dok try. hehe. hope after kawen maintain....(i doubt it). hehe.

takleh update byk2. no time. maybe in nov, i've got stuff to say.

Not much to say but........

......... i'm counting days....