Oh well, i guess i'm stuck with it. WTF pon WTF laa...
Updates on wedding prep.
Venue of the wedding has been changed. It has always been my dream to have a wedding at home. But during the merisik and engagement, we realized that the house cant cater the amount of people that we are inviting. 30th nov was the date that was choosen initially but there were no dewan or hotel available. ada la satu hotel, grand blue wave, but....for RM58 per head for crappy menu, baik tak payah. and the hotel sucks. they serve kek kering (kedekut tepung / butter). So thats why 11.01.09 came about, but the venue is a dewan in subang (which i didnt have the opportunity to choose or even check it out). Anyway, i had to agree to that idea.
At this point of time, next thing to look for is the pelamin. Oh god.....there's so many to choose from but all of it (besides the cost) they all look the same!!!!!!!! With kerawang besi as the back drop, kelambu over the head, fresh flowers, pasu2 at the sides... errgh...so typical. After awhile i came to the conslusion to simply choose and go ahead with any of the design. And then there's this professor, a friend of my uncle, he offered to design my pelamin. he did one for raja nazrin and a few royalties. so, as expected, his design are basically very 'golden' and very gah. nampak mewah betul....also not my thingy. bukan buat kat istana.....and i seriously think that it's a bit too much. my mom agreed pulak tu with the cost. hmmm. i disagreed thoh.
i went on for my quest to look for my dream pelamin......a simple and yet classy, not too grandish and yet lovely. so i got to find this one place. it just happened that an actor had his wedding the day before and the canopy and pelamin were not taken down yet, so it was there still. the moment i saw the place, the pelamin and everything else.........i had orgasm right there and then. hehe. kidding. i knew right away that i gotta have this one. i really2 like it, it's so me and fits my dress. hehe. however, the cards had to be reprinted...... but small matter lah.
From last week, our dining table at home dah tukar jadi bilik operasi. we've been busy writing the invitation cards and sorting the lists. Since now the venue is no longer a dewan or hotel, we are worried that there maybe times where there's not enough seats during the peak time. Tah la....this is something the caterer and planner, and me, will need to figure out.
Anyway, back to the guest list, majority will be from my list. Friends, old and new, people from work is the majority, business acquaintances, classmates, lecturers etc. from those peeps, i am contemplating to not to invite some people, thoh i've asked for their addresses. why....bcoz i dislike them. just because. maybe thru the course of my friendship, there's a few incidents that make me dislike them. tp tgk la, maybe ajak je kot. i dont have to say much to them pon kan...
My dearest cousin is planning to have a hen's night for me somewhere after new year. She asked if i'd like a stripper. Perghh.....imagine a man dancing and rubbing his muscled tone body against me...and my frens screming and putting money in his g string. hmmm..... I would agree to have it if i'm not the centre of attention of this stripper. hehe. scary la....rasa mcm kena molest. i nice dinner with friends would be nice though. tengok la apa yg my cuz plan. will update on this later.
Since raya, i've been eating moderately without exercising. so the extra pound's back. huhu. but lucky i have my best buddy, biskot, to exercise with. we even go to the gym. as of now, i'm OK. but the effort must go on bebeh (im telling myself). in relation to that i've already informed my wedding dress designer to allocate some extra space to his tailoring, just in case.
My beloved just got his sijil kursus kahwin, so we got the license. kawin sekarang pon dah boleyyyy.....hihihihihihi (gelak gatal). sometimes, the excitement is just too overwhelming so i'd rather not think of it. buat tatau better. excited awal2 nanti rasa lagi lama. i guess it's due to the fact that dah 2 bulan tak jumper. he came a few times but i was not at home and he only met my parents. huhu. mish him. bak org ancient kata.....jauh di mata dekat di hati. cewah.... jiwang plak blog gue. i'm going to jb soon for work. hmmm maybe just a sneak peek......or dinner perhaps.
will update next time. tata....

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