Masalah wanita

Kalau belom kawin, masalah yg dihadapi:

1. Majority sedara mara akan tanya biler nak kawin (ni kalu ada bf)
2. Kalau takde bf, ayat paling bangang yg org akan kasi ialah "Aik....pesal takde bf?"

Macam la kawin tu is something so simple. Pastu ingat nak simply kawin ke dgn mana2 mamat lain....huh. Sorry kay. Kalau aku dulu, bf mmg la senang dapat. Pastu cuma happy tak happy je dgn bf tu. Tetapi, utk buat laki, susah woooo nak carik. Dah la aku ni nak syed je. Dah dapat bf syed, kena lak make sure dia leh bimbing kita. tu yg first la aku tgk, apart from ngam dgn kita. knowledge bout agama tersgt la patut ada, pastu knowledge pasal hal ehwal semasa kena ada gak. kalau kita sembang, takde la dia nak asyik tazkirah jek, and dia leh la kasi feedback dgn apa kita sembang. althoh bergayut jiwang and baby talk is cute, tp lama2 bosan la coz no value add to it. Communication ni penting. bila dah tua, korang dah tak boleh projek....and then what? Thats why kena carik someone that we can talk to....about anything. pastu criteria lepas tu, dia kena syg/chenta aku more that aku chenta dia. hehe. Mmg susah nak measure. Tapi kalau kau rasa secure and no worries, tu kira ok lah. Bila cakap pasal syg/chenta ni, takleh le kat mulut sajer. Kena la tahu tunjuk jugak, tapi jgn la tunjuk depan org sbb nak menunjuk. Nanti org meluat, and mengundang benda2 tak baik. Tapi ni citer lain. Pastu kena gak tgk family, financial and lain2.

Sometimes, when we meet someone, org tu kita rasa ada everything. pastu kita dah head over heels. when we are in too deep, then only we realize the flaws. Oh oh! Tu yg start timbul rasa insecurities mcm jealous tak pasal2, clinging sampai org tu lemas la, mcm2 la....

Sometimes, jumpa lak org yg kita leh ngam, and over time with practiced communication between the two of you, and bertolak ansur, then u've got your life partner.

So kalau dah kawin pulak, soklan yg annoying didengar ialah:

"Bila nak ada baby??"
"Dah ada isi ke???" Mentang2 la aku gumuk sket....

Wtf.....mcm la senang nak dpt baby. And style depa tanya tu mcm la aku tanak baby. Sometimes when they ask this, I just want to say, why dont you ask god yourself?

Yg paling pund*k nye statement aku penah dengar is, " Teknik salah kottt.....tu yg takde lagi."

Hek eleh......

Kadang aku nak komen la, diorg ada anak tapi anak korang tu ok sgt ke? Mulut mak mcm tu, anak tah camner la ckp dgn mak dia sendiri...Mcm aku, aku doakan agar dapat anak solehah. Maybe yg lom ada rezeki tu, mungkin tak menepati doa2 aku ke.....aku pk positive camtu la...hikhik...

Pastu kalau dah ada anak.....orang tanya bila nak ada next baby??

So ini la yg aku rasa masalah sosial yg melanda kaum wanita....never ending nye episodes of soklan bodoh.

I'm slacking again....

Hari ni aku bosan giler kt opis memikirkan pasal write up spin off business plan. So aku buat gambar sebelah ni haa....

Since aku rasa cam love love tu cute, aku kasi ler kat hubby aku. Pastu dia kata dia suka sgt smpai save as background....aku pon tak buat gitu....hihi..

Pastu aku sambung lagi buat picture wall. Dah lama nak buat cuma takde time nak tgk gambar. So ini hasilnye.

Till next time, muahhkkkss.

*note: post ini telah diubah font nye

Alone in Ganu....(Baca as alongg ing ganue..)

I'm still in K. Tganu at the moment, but thank god i'm going home tonight. I hope i don't have to come again, but it depends to my big boss. I've been berulang alik KL-Tganu-KL since December. Why? To give training on negotiation skills and entrepreneurship modules to unemployed graduates in our East Coast Region. Nobel huh? Training ni conducted kat TESDEC and bebudak tu semua ok. Dah ajar 1^st and 2^nd batch. Sian gak sbb diorg nye English agak lemah, althoh ada some yg ok, tp takde rezeki lagi utk kerja.

*Biotech Corp has this program called BeST (Biotechnology Entrepreneuship Special Training) where they provide skill enhancement trainings for 3 months and the next 3 months these students will be attached to some biotech companies.

Mula2 jadi trainer mmg syok la. Rasa mcm cikgu. Yg tak best aku kena betul2 tau apa aku ajar, and also kena prepare module from scratch. Masa mula2 pegi in Dec tu hubby ikut sekali, so kira cam honeymoon ke...hmmm...tah berapa kali. Lepas tu pegi, dia dah tak leh ikut sbb company dia baru keje ni tak kasi cuti masa dia still under probabtion. Anyway, dah after a few times pegi balik, cam boring la pulak travelling ni. Bosan siot sorang2 dah la takde tempat nak berjalan. Pegi la jugak pasar paying utk business aku, tp still bosan. Laut pon tak leh mandi althoh sgt mengiurkan (I love the beach). Makan la yg sedap. Habis aku naik beberapa kilo lagi. Aku juga jumpa laksam and kapok lekor yg sgt sedap. Laksam kat sebelah hotel aku (Permai Inn), kapok lak aku beli kat Kelulut, brand name dia 008. Kalau korang gi sana, gi la beli. Byk tul ikan dlm lekor dia. Ada lagi satu kat Kg Bkt Tok Beng, on the way nak gi airport. Aku penah Nampak org beratur nk beli kepok sampai jam kat jalan. Pergh....i am yet to try. Nanti la.

Lepas ni aku sgt2 berharap tak yah gi dah. Aku pon bukannye nak sgt jadi trainer. Org lain dah pegi kursus Train the Trainer, aku je blom, and not that I intend to. Main reason malas nak gi lama2, is that my hubby dah mengadu kat mom yg dia tak nak sgt aku outstation. Mak aku kata la...aku keje. Later on plak, dia dah cakap dah style manja2 dia....u tk syg i, selalu tinggal2 dia...or huhuuuuu.....u nak gi jauh dah.... (cair aku). Usually bila aku ada, ofcourse he will always be with me. Kat umah tengok tv pon pegang tangan aku. Not that i'm complaining coz i love it so much. So bila aku outstation, dia tido awal giler, like 9 pm. Nampak sgt dia tak de semangat when im not around. Aku pon sama la jugak. In a way,aku boring sbb dia takde dgn aku. Huhu. So hopefully, aku dah tak yah gi tganu ni. Lagi pung, letih la.

Ni gambar aku ambik masa atas kapal terbang, while its passing over KL. Senja masa tu lawa sgt2 tp camera omnia aku tak dpt mengcapture kelawaan itu....

Dah setahun pon....

It's my wedding anniversary yesterday (also tok mama's one month passing). Alfatihah.

Sekejap je dah setahun. Rasa mcm baru 3-4 bulan. Alhamdullilah, dgn rezeki kebahagiaan yg Allah bg aku dgn hubby aku. Now nak perkuatkan lagi doa utk zuriat. Dan juga usaha-usaha diwaktu malam. Hik hik. Apa2 pon, i love him to bits.

Almost terlupa bout the anniversary since it's on Sunday and i set the reminders in my calendar a bit too early, but pagi2 hubby wished first. We didnt celebrate like's it a special day since our daily activities are romantic enough. Lgpun pitis is running out and next gaji is weeks away. However, we did went out to watch Avatar 3D (dad ikut sekali). It's the best movie. Ever! Perghh......i dont mind watching 10x lagi.

Ni masa tgh turun escalator, sempat posing. My dad kat blkg jalan solo.

Ni dgn dad dlm wayang. Buat peace tu mcm Ekin bini mawi nye style. Uwekkkk! Tamo buat dah peace.

Bila rupa camni, aku teringat lak zaman aku pegi rave dulu. Huhu.

Dad terjumpa kedai wig. Sempat posing sebelum tauke kedai keluar.

Hubby pon nk jugak ambik pic. He looks like Dato's Shake lak....hmmm.