Masalah wanita

Kalau belom kawin, masalah yg dihadapi:

1. Majority sedara mara akan tanya biler nak kawin (ni kalu ada bf)
2. Kalau takde bf, ayat paling bangang yg org akan kasi ialah "Aik....pesal takde bf?"

Macam la kawin tu is something so simple. Pastu ingat nak simply kawin ke dgn mana2 mamat lain....huh. Sorry kay. Kalau aku dulu, bf mmg la senang dapat. Pastu cuma happy tak happy je dgn bf tu. Tetapi, utk buat laki, susah woooo nak carik. Dah la aku ni nak syed je. Dah dapat bf syed, kena lak make sure dia leh bimbing kita. tu yg first la aku tgk, apart from ngam dgn kita. knowledge bout agama tersgt la patut ada, pastu knowledge pasal hal ehwal semasa kena ada gak. kalau kita sembang, takde la dia nak asyik tazkirah jek, and dia leh la kasi feedback dgn apa kita sembang. althoh bergayut jiwang and baby talk is cute, tp lama2 bosan la coz no value add to it. Communication ni penting. bila dah tua, korang dah tak boleh projek....and then what? Thats why kena carik someone that we can talk to....about anything. pastu criteria lepas tu, dia kena syg/chenta aku more that aku chenta dia. hehe. Mmg susah nak measure. Tapi kalau kau rasa secure and no worries, tu kira ok lah. Bila cakap pasal syg/chenta ni, takleh le kat mulut sajer. Kena la tahu tunjuk jugak, tapi jgn la tunjuk depan org sbb nak menunjuk. Nanti org meluat, and mengundang benda2 tak baik. Tapi ni citer lain. Pastu kena gak tgk family, financial and lain2.

Sometimes, when we meet someone, org tu kita rasa ada everything. pastu kita dah head over heels. when we are in too deep, then only we realize the flaws. Oh oh! Tu yg start timbul rasa insecurities mcm jealous tak pasal2, clinging sampai org tu lemas la, mcm2 la....

Sometimes, jumpa lak org yg kita leh ngam, and over time with practiced communication between the two of you, and bertolak ansur, then u've got your life partner.

So kalau dah kawin pulak, soklan yg annoying didengar ialah:

"Bila nak ada baby??"
"Dah ada isi ke???" Mentang2 la aku gumuk sket....

Wtf.....mcm la senang nak dpt baby. And style depa tanya tu mcm la aku tanak baby. Sometimes when they ask this, I just want to say, why dont you ask god yourself?

Yg paling pund*k nye statement aku penah dengar is, " Teknik salah kottt.....tu yg takde lagi."

Hek eleh......

Kadang aku nak komen la, diorg ada anak tapi anak korang tu ok sgt ke? Mulut mak mcm tu, anak tah camner la ckp dgn mak dia sendiri...Mcm aku, aku doakan agar dapat anak solehah. Maybe yg lom ada rezeki tu, mungkin tak menepati doa2 aku ke.....aku pk positive camtu la...hikhik...

Pastu kalau dah ada anak.....orang tanya bila nak ada next baby??

So ini la yg aku rasa masalah sosial yg melanda kaum wanita....never ending nye episodes of soklan bodoh.