Que sera sera

Last week, I made friends with two people. First was K, she's a lovely lady. My circumstances of introducing myself was out of the ordinary so I shall keep this as a something that is not to be shared in here. We hit it off right away, like we've known for ages. Well, I can't wait to meet her.

The second one is a bit more special. He's a guy and a Syed. Lets call him J. How did I get to know him? It was Lan...my YM friend for ages, whom i've never met. Almost a few times, but never. Before that, let me brief you of my situation. I hate looking for boyfriends (cum husband). Boyfriends are easy for me...cewah. But for these men, I prefer they 'jatuh ke riba' kind of thing. So some of my wonderful friends try to help me by they themselve get to know and scan through these men, wherever they can find, or from their existing network, and if they think they fit my requirement, then they'll introduce him to me. Ayat gua formal seyyyy... Anyway, Lan said J is a good friend of his, and a great guy.

Anyway, back to J...we have been sms-ing non stop since the day we got each other's number. Non stop literally. Ofcourse it stopped when we sleep. He is nice, funny, his english is good, his malay is in utara slang, he shows that he wants to know me better, he is constant, he is humble, respectful, he is sweet... all of this derived from his sms-es. So far, I would say things are going smoothly.

Next step, which I wanna take up like a snail's pace, is GAYUT. Tau apa tu gayut?? Talk talk on the phone laaa. I think it'll be soon. I wonder if we have any more topics since we have sms-ed quite on everything. Anyway we'll see...

After that is the meeting part. The initial face to face meeting. I really want to do this through the old fashion way. If the gayut part turns out well, I guess i gotta tell my parents about J, and ask what they think about it. Yep, I think i'll just do that when the time comes.

Why I'm sharing about this on my blog? I think he is worth to write about. I dont know what I would say in the future if things dont turn out well, but for sure I dont want to brag nonsense. I do not easily fall in love. As a matter of fact, I dont like people easily as well (althoh I am likeable..hehe...brag pasai ni takpa kot). I wish I wont be easily swayed, but J is not a sweet talker. I hope my experiences with men has equiped me with to acknowledge phony assholes. Love is blind. Can be in a good or a bad way. Sometimes we can get too smitten with sweet words and we just refuse too see things in between the lines. I dont want to be blinded, so I shall take everything easy. Only fools rush in. If it were not meant to be, then it is not.

I now understand the underlying meaning of 'Age is just a number' coz I dont look as old as my age.....Hehe...bukan perasan la tapi semua org cakap. For some people it may not be applicable coz they look olddd. Betul tak, last women? <--Perhatian: ni best friend aku, bukan ayat kenyataan. Kot2 korang pelik ape benda aku cakap neh.

To may friend Sedi and Bodent, who were waiting patiently for this blog, sorry to keep you guys waiting, but I have been receiving sms-es in between. Thats why lambat sikit. Isinye takde la panjang nor...Heheh.